Are you um someone who might be thinking that you’ve messed up your life royally? I mean, I think it’s pretty safe to say that to some degree everyone thinks that from time to time. I don’t know if you’re going to like what I’m about to say, but you’re going to be able to relate to it.

But maybe if we can figure it out, we can do well by it. And that is we’re coming up on a year’s end and a new year beginning. And as humans, we’re kind of suckers for falling into a trap whereby we think we could wash away what’s happened to the past, make it all sparkly clean, gone, and move on into the new year with everything rosy.

Well, listen, I’m kind of reminded of what I saw the other day, and it was this. It was on YouTube and I was watching because I really like this stuff about guys uh you know driving street cars, fast cars on the streets and there was a guy that was sitting at a stoplight and everybody was at on the street corners cheering him on because the guy happened to been driving a Lamborghini and uh it was probably his dad’s car because when he punched it he didn’t he didn’t know what to do with a 1000 horsepower And so the guy went out of

control completely and then he tried to stop it and that didn’t help any any more better at all whatsoever. And the guy crashed into the curb. When you take a Lamborghini and hit a curb, it basically destroys a good chunk of that car. The car was destroyed and everybody was laughing and that guy started crying.

Listen, people feel like they’ve done that with their lives. They maybe have gone too fast. Maybe they felt like they hit it too hard. And you know what? Maybe you did. Maybe that’s exactly what happened is that all your friends were cheering you on and you punched it and you wound up ruining your life.