Tag: Lysa TerKeurst Sermons 2024

Why Love Bombing Feels Good — But Isn’t! I have experienced this before in a relationship where there was a lot of rejection and a lot of hurt, a lot of pain and I eventually made some decisions to take agency in that relationship and put up some healthy boundaries and honestly create some healthy [...]

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When They Say This … It’s Gaslighting! And I think gaslighting came from an old movie, right? There’s two different movies. Alfred Hitchcock has one. Yeah. Yeah. Where uh I don’t know. I can’t remember. Is it that the the woman would set the gas lamp, would go out and turn them on, turn all [...]

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Is Every Red Flag a Big Deal? Welcome to Therapy and Theology. I’m Lisa Turkers. This is Jim Crest and Dr. Joel Mudamali. Really, you guys just don’t even need introductions at this point, right? I could just say this is our friend Jim. Our friend Joel and we would all be fine. We’ve been [...]

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Not Just Fight or Flight: 4 Reaction Types Explained four reaction types. I’m going to name them, but I want to tell you something important. Um, so here we go. The exploder that blames others, the exploder that shames herself or himself, the stuffer that builds barriers, and the stuffer that collects retaliation rocks. Okay. [...]

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How To Set Boundaries With a Narcissist Okay. So, let’s say we’re listening and we realize, okay, not labeling, but containing that this is information to help make us wise. Um, that we suspect we’re in a relationship with a narcissist. And now, what do we do? Well, a great book, again, bestseller, Good Boundaries [...]

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Ever Wonder Why You React So Strongly? Here’s Why I want to talk about how better reactions can lead to better relationships. That initial emotional response that we have. But also I want to unpack how our feelings are great indicators but should never be dictators how we act and react. You know our character [...]

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When Life Feels on Hold and God Seems Late How can I keep from feeling like my life is stalled out while waiting for my divorce to be finalized? I feel like I can’t move on or function because I’m afraid of my husband’s retaliation until we’re legally divorced. >> I really relate to this [...]

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How To Co-Parent With Your Ex Divorce, especially when unwanted or resulting from destructive circumstances, initiates a process of deep grief and pain, often compared to the ripping apart of a protective, core bond. Successfully navigating co-parenting after separation requires intentional steps focused on personal healing, strategic emotional strength, and prioritizing the well-being of the [...]

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I Don’t Understand What God Is Allowing is it okay if I make an honest confession yeah please confession I love confession time we talked in the previous episode about betrayal and the last layer of betrayal we went through six layers of betrayal the last layer was how could God have seen this happening [...]

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The Steps to Repairing Trust \ now I do want to say that Jim taught me something really important here details are not always helpful we don’t want to go shopping for pain and and if we need a detail then fine ask for it but I found the details just compounded my hurt I [...]

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