People’s Approval Doesn’t Matter
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One thing I have learned is we don’t graduate from our need to be approved by people when we graduate high school. We still live for approval; it just gets more expensive. When God gave me this message, he said, “Call it The Father Saw, because they thought nobody saw, but I did.
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” Since you can’t see the Father visibly or hear the Father audibly, I want to deliver the message today that he saw. He saw what you didn’t get. He saw that integrity you had. He saw when you didn’t go off. Now, Wednesday you did, but then Thursday you got it together and you didn’t do it again. See, we have to celebrate the times where we do get it right. I’m bad at this. Stand up if you’re like me and you have a hard time celebrating your successes. All right.
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Let’s take a moment, since we’re so hard on ourselves and we have a hard time celebrating ourselves, at every location, let’s celebrate the fact that we had the self-awareness to stand up and know that we’re hard on ourselves. See how weak that was? You’re like, “I’m not clapping for that.” Sit down. I have to work on y’all for a minute.
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We are so bad at this. Holly and I went on a hike to Crowders Mountain Friday, and while I was busy beating the imaginary opponent to the top of the hill… I was 30 steps ahead of her, and she was looking at the view. I said, “You need to keep up.” She said, “You need to slow down. The view is getting good.” I was like, “I know it.
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” But she was talking about the landscape. I realized it was an analogy for what she brings to my life that is so irreplaceable. Holly is great at celebrating herself. She really is. She does not need lessons in this. She came downstairs the other day celebrating her workouts, that she had made it to a certain point in her workouts.
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I’m the kind of person… I’ll do the workout and then think about the fact that somebody else could have lifted more. I’ll just do this all the time. Really. I struggle to celebrate myself. And I used to think that was godly, because after all, the Bible says, “Humble yourself in the sight of the Lord.