Dealing with Difficult People
Paul’s letter to Timothy reveals his deep concern that, just as his own race is nearly finished, Timothy must also persevere and finish well. As a mentor and guide, Paul wants to prepare Timothy for the challenges ahead so that he is not caught off guard. In what we now recognize as the third chapter of this letter, Paul lays out the nature of these challenges.
As we discussed previously, a good leader understands the importance of delegation. But beyond simply assigning responsibility, it is crucial to equip the person taking on the task. Many of you in the medical field know the value of preparing patients for what lies ahead. I recall visiting a doctor in Glasgow who told me, “If you can get through the next 40 seconds, it will be smooth sailing from there.” That phrase stuck with me because it reminded me of the importance of endurance.
Similarly, pilots often prepare passengers for turbulence. Some remain silent, leaving passengers to wonder about the flight conditions. Others, particularly British Airways pilots, provide reassuring updates. I recall a flight where the captain mentioned we would cross the airstream a couple of times. At the time, I didn’t fully understand what that meant—until I felt the plane suddenly drop. Though we likely descended no more than 30 meters, it was enough to appreciate his warning. A prepared mind is less likely to panic.
Paul takes a similar approach with Timothy, beginning with the phrase: “But understand this.” He warns Timothy not to be naive—difficult times are ahead. There will be seasons when following Jesus will be particularly challenging, much like navigating turbulence. In such times, relying on feelings can be dangerous. Instead, Timothy must “fly by the instruments”—holding firmly to God’s truth—so that he can safely guide himself and others.
