okay so we’re going to talk tonight briefly about building lasting relationships living from the home front because your leadership is as good as your home you’re going to build a strong organization you’ve got to have a strong home life sometimes we go to college to learn all kind of techniques about management and organizational principles and all kinds of you know mechanical things about leadership and we have no training in just living with a spouse or parenting children and these are the greatest examples paul says if you don’t
know how to run your own home well don’t touch god’s house but this is big business here all right i want to talk a little bit about then the principle of relationships uh actually we’re going to focus on the power of needs because this is where relationships get there their concepts from power of needs this is so important in in understanding how to build a strong marriage and a strong relationship uh successful marriages are a result of knowledge not of love love does not keep marriage together write that down right now love does not
keep marriages together write it down please because you think it does and it doesn’t it really doesn’t okay first of all let’s talk about needs then i am convinced that needs are the key to a strong relationship with anything first point to write down everything was created to relate to something else number two all relationships are based on needs how many all all races between your dog and you the plant and the soil the sun and the leaf everything in this building is based on relationships you and your car have a relationship
going on you treat it right it treats you right you do something for it it does some for you everything is based on relationship you’re not a mechanic but you need the mechanic when your car breaks down you go to visit the mechanic you know you’re not married to him you don’t love him but you got to relate to him based on something am i right you don’t sleep with the doctor at least not all doctors some of y’all sleep with the doctor but you know but when you’re sick you got to relate to the doctor the dentist you don’t like the dentist
but when your teeth start giving you problem you got to go visit this person in other words relationships everything is related based on relationships and what is it what is it needs needs number three needs dictate the nature of all relationships in other words the kind of relationship you develop with something depends on the needs that it meets in your life and number four when needs are neglected relationships are broken boy this is so simple yet so misunderstood anytime there is a break in your relationship with somebody
