I was on another podcast recently and we were talking about how different my life looks now than it did even four years ago 5 years ago 10 years ago and I’m living a life now that I never saw coming it’s different but as we talked about in the previous episode different can mean really really good for those of you who have been following along with my story you probably know this but in case you haven’t I’ll catch you up um I recently got remarried mhm and so on this podcast interview the G interviewing me she and I are very good
friends and she said okay Lisa just be honest is it truly as great as it seems and she went on to tell me that a friend of hers who got married in their 40s um had sent her a note that’s saying like hey you know I just want to say cuz my friend is single I just want to say like I’ve gotten married now and I mean it’s good but there’s also so many hard parts that it’s not as great as it seems and so I told my friend I was like you know what I have a different answer I say it is as good as it seems and being married again even to a
wonderful man who with a healthy relationship it doesn’t fix anything inside of me the same parts that were broken before I I got into this new relationship that is healthy and that is wonderful and with a man that I love and I know loves me um it is the relationship is as great as I always dreamed and hoped it would be and it doesn’t fix anything inside of me because the parts of me that still need to be worked on the parts of me that still need to be healed um that’s an inside job it doesn’t automatically fix
when our external circumstances are different and wonderful so today I want to talk about the prepare work that has to be done inside of us and I want to start out by saying here’s where we’re ultimately going here we’re going to resilience we talked so much about the Brokenness and so much about healing the relationships and even changing our perspectives and all of that but I want to talk about what happens to a person who has been through so much hurt and so much pain and so much betrayal has their trust broken in so many different ways
